Yesterday he went to see his PO (my hope for him being court ordered to a reahb). The PO was TOO BUSY too see everyone that showed up so he had Keven sign a piece of paper and told him to come back in two weeks!!!!!! I guess this is what real PO's are like? We're used to having the kind that is in your face, coming by your house, drug testing you twice a week, etc.
So I gave him till Saturday to find a place to go and we will pay his first month of sober living, since he refuses to go back to a rehab, and I don't blame him....after 5 there's not a whole lot he's going to learn, he could probably lead one (certainly not by example - but he can quote from the Big Book all day long, has all the tools, etc.)
He hasn't used again.
Today I go to work and he will be home alone with my mom, who is getting soft already and saying maybe it wouldn't be that bad having him here. I begged her NOT to say that to Keven. He's out and that's all there is to it.
But, darn it, its not easy kicking your kid out when he has no money, no place to go, no friends to call, no nothing, just a ripped up duffle bag of clothes. I need strength for this...
Thanks for all the comments, I'll be catching up on blogs when I get to work and have time (ironic, most people have to work at work, I just sit there and answer phones).
Peace, Hope and Love,