May 23, 2010

Ant Update

Anthony's gf, "Kelly" got to visit him for the first time (this stay) yesterday.  It was a full contact visit so they got to hug and hold hands.  She said he's doing great and has a job two days a week.  The rest of the week he stays busy doing tattoos and practicing guitar.  Doesn't sound too bad for being in prison!

I know for a fact that Kelly relapsed but didn't ask her if she mentioned it to Ant.  I'm staying out of their business.  I write him about once a week to remind him I am here and that I love him.  I'm glad he's doing so well.

Thanks for all the comments...Keven is about the same, I am doing better.  Taking a lot of deep breaths and reminding myself to take it one hour at a time

Peace, Hope and Love, Barbara

8 comments:

Syd said...

Good for you Barb. I have had to take it 15 minutes at a time before. And telling others that you love them is so important. Have a good day.

Anonymous said...

You deserve all the best, what a big heart you have....
you sound like such a good person it makes me sad you have to struggle with this things..
All the best for Kev and Ant!

Annette said...

Glad to hear you are doing better. :o)

Addiction--Mom trying to Detach with Love said...

I am so glad you are taking care of yourself. I have been a bit absent but still reading and praying for you and Keven. (((HUGS)))

Kristi (Jake's Mom) said...

Barbara, I so happy to hear you are doing a little better and that Ant is doing well and things aren't any worse for Kevin. One day at a time!! Continuing to pray for ALL of us!! :) (((HUGS)))

Vinny "Bond" Marini said...

reading but with little to say ...keeping you and K in my thoughts

LisaC said...

I'm most happy to hear that you are doing better. I continue to pray for Keven, Ant and Kelly; but my heart feels for you!

Remember to keep breathing and you can get strength from the fact that you never stop loving and caring...and you've never given up hope for any of them.

Kristin said...

Barbara, I am so happy to hear that you are doing better. That Keven sounds a bit more stable and is not using today is a bonus.
My daughter is having a breakdown so it is good to be reminded that I need to take it one day at a time. Just get one foot in front of the other. Do what is in my power and release what is not. Too often too tough to do.
I have had to go to New York. I vowed not to until things got better (for me) but the plea for help was desperate.
I contacted a couple of friends. Hopefully they will have time to see me. I have to be careful that I don't get on the roller coaster with my daughter. It will be hard. She is really falling hard and fast.
Wish me luck. I have made a vow to myself to stay connect by blogging.
We'll see...
xx kris

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