I am so happy to report that the Keven related drama is over...the people involved (the accusers) dropped their claim against Keven's girlfriend's family because -it was a frigging lie and they knew it! Keven was implicated by association - they didn't even know his name. The sad thing is it was the principal of a school that made the false accusations...who can we trust these days?
BUT there is new drama related to Anthony and his gf, "Kelly". This is sad. Ant called me wondering if I knew where Kelly was. I had a gut feeling that she was out using again yesterday because she was suppose to come see me and made up a stupid excuse. So Ant asked me to look up and see if she was in jail. I did, she wasn't. Then he asked me to send him $200 so he won't get beat up for owing money (gave me a BS story that I KNOW means he used drugs in there). I said SORRY, but I can't.
Ten minutes later I get a call from Kelly. She was with her parents, they had just picked her up from JAIL. She was arrested yesterday for being under the influence.
Then the phone rings and Ant's dear grandmother asked me if I would take $200 to Western Union so Ant doesn't get beat up. She is not able to drive herself. I said sure. I am doing it for her.
I feel embarrassed even writing all this down and looking at it...how did this become my life?
This is what happens to nice normal people who's kids get messed up with drugs. Its never ending drama. I hate it and won't participate any further other than doing what I feel is right to help Keven.
I can't even discuss on here what the latest is because there are legal implications. I am remaining calm because its so ridiculous but its still causing stress.
Also found out that Keven's dr. is retiring in July. This is not good news. He loves his dr. and so do I. I've heard horror stories about psychiatrists that just dole out meds and meet with their patients for a few minutes at a time. This guy talks to Keven for a half hour or MORE each visit. Yesterday he talked to him for an hour an a half (no extra charge).
Why do good things come to an end and bad things keep happening? (that's a rhetorical question!)
Today Keven seems to be having a good day....even with this latest drama. I am just NOT going to allow myself to worry.
Peace, Hope and Love, Barbara